Sudden urge to post up this question for some advice or comments from my dearest readers...
Firstly, thank u for ur time spend here to read such a 'boh liao' topic... keke
Ok here goes...
"I used to have a super duper close good gal fren since sec sch days...we did almost eveything together....we spend time together almost everyday...on weekends we are always out in town together too....in another words, I can say tt we are kinda inseperable (correct spelling?)
Anyway, life went on like tt even after she is attached....jux tt her 'bf ' will be tagging along lor...keke...
After graduation, we even went to the same college ...so coincident lor...(guess tts y we so close bah..and our charaters are almost similar)
In that new sch environment, we each got to know new frens and faces...although we had new found frens we did not neglect each other, we still find time for one another and even go out wif our new pals....we mingle and had fun still....but then my buddy (named W) got to be very close wif another fren (named J)...still its ok, we (3 of us became buddies) had so much happy times and moments together...
Soon, something bad happened one day...I was being 'blamed' for something very serious tt I had nv done!!! I was 'framed' by J and was bad-mouthed by another ger (G)...they told W things that I nv had said abt her....they made things so ugly tt W assume that it was all true!!!
I was so sad....my world came crashing down hard on me.... I cried for days (really lor...untill eyes swollen wor)...I tried to explain myself to W... I called her hp and email her....I did wateva I can to save our friendship....BUT I was pushed off and REJECTED just like tt....all becos of those 2 NEW frens....
I asked myself...'where do I actually stand?
She rather trust her new frenz then ME...she knows mi better then them, but Y did she do tt to mi?'
I was so miserable for few weeks untill I get to know a fellow student concilor (R), she talked to me abt my problems and shared her views...I tried to look forward and tried so hard to put the incident behind my head....
Months later, me and R became best pals....I had my best moments wif her and all other new found student concilor friends...they were so suppotive!!!
R & me shared everything together and even come and go to sch together...W saw us so close and she told R tt I love to take advantage of frens and later 'stab' them... Luckily R did not belief her...our frenship grew (till today I m still in contact with R hor)...
Even after we graduated, I did not contact W & J....life passed as normal for mi till J suddenly called mi to meet up...I was very relactuant when I knew tt W will b there oso...
I make up reasons to excuse my absence...but then again, its a mistake....
I was 'accused' by W for something tt I nv told J abt....
My frenship for W worsen....we hated one another.....the hatral grew...
3 yrs after this incident, W suddenly called mi and asked mi out to tok...from there, our frenship kind of 'came back'....J left W's life becos of some incident....
Me & W has since bonded back but somehow I dun feel the closeness anymore...
I don know if I m doing the rite thing to be so nice to W again?
I do wish to put back the same trust and believe in our frenship again...but frankily, I really worry abt the future....will history repeat itself? will it b another trap?"
My dearest readers, friends or who-eva u R....ur kind advice is really appreciated for the above topic.... ",)
