7 Apr
Was wif BB for the past hours as some unhappy issues occured....
Stayed wif him till the final ritual started to send Granny off her last journey...
Prayers and Band....
And finally the last walk wif her...and then off to Mandai...
Whole process finally ended with late lunch at TPY and we headed home after tt...
After showering and relaxing for a while, BB & I headed to dreamland at 6pm....
8 Apr
Woke up at 8am for work while BB & PIL went to collect Granny's ash...
BB sent to ofc after breakfast...
Took half day off, went home myself...
On the way back in Bus 13, passed by some places and memories jux flowed back....
Happy & sad it consist....
BB came to pick mi up after he finished settling Granny's stuff...
Went over to his plc & dinner wif BB & PIL....
Home Sweet Home...
9 Apr
Back to work for BB after so so long........
BB dropped mi off at bus stop on his way...
Went home after work and had simple dinner wif MIL at AMK...
Upon reaching hm, BB fell asleep almost immediately...LOL
He is really shag, still nd more time to recoperate...
10 Apr
Its his Bday, NO celebration this yr...
Jux had a simple day companying him...
Went in to do his car and shower his car...LOL
His Granny has passed on on Sat (3 Apr 10)....Aged 93....after holding on for 2 days at the hospital....
We managed to see her for the last, since we rushed back from Malacca the nite bef (previous post)...
It made me think of my Granny too...I really missed her so much and I regreated tt I oni touched her once after so long...There is so many things tt I wan to tell and share w her but I guess I m too late...
Tat is why I always ask BB to visit his Granny wheneva he can but....
Have been going to the wake almost every night to pay respect and stayed for a while....cos somehow I am already married to BB jux tt we haf not customary...have been sick since I m bk from Malacca, but its ok....I will wan to send Granny off her last journey too cos she dotes on BB alot and often ask for mi when there are occassions involving her....
Her furneral will be tml at 2pm, cremation at 3pm at Mandai....She will be placed next to her husband at Bishan...
* Ah Ma, U are well now, tk care and move on to your new world....Dun have to worry abt us anymore... U will always be in our hearts !*
At 9:30 am tis morning, BB hp rang....I was still in deep sleep, till I heard him say :" We have to rush to hospital nw, Granny cant hold on..."
I jumped up of bed, changed and we rush off to TTSH....
When we got there, most of his aunties were already there, we called Granny....but she din respond....her pulse rate was dropping and her oxygen intake had reduce....
We stayed there for awhile till abt 1pm, BB & me went for lunch....and headed hm to rest as I wasn't feeling well already...started to have headache and cough....
I napped for a while and BB hp ranged again....he rushed down w/out mi as I was really too weak to move....but in less than an hour, BB called mi and ask mi to go down too....
When I arrived, her pulse and oxygen intake was getting weaker, BB broke down and so did I too....
It pains me to see him so sad, and it made mi rem my Granny....
She struggled on and off for abt 5 times....all was so afraid....
We were there till abt 6:55pm, when FIL decided to go back hm to shower and rest....
After dilly-dally~ing, we left the ward, but not for long BB hp rang.....BIL told him tt Granny pusle rate had dropped further....we rush back to see her and at 7:15pm, she left us peacefully....there was no more struggling from her and she was blessed as she had the whole family wif her at her last breathe....
After BB & FIL settled all the neccessary for the wake, we headed home....
BB sent mi bk to Wdl....
2nd Apr 2010
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For the first time, BB is driving his car up to Malacca, a longer distance than JB....
Though we have been driving to JB often, this is a totaly diff experience....
We left home at abt 5:30am, picked up K & L and headed to Mac for breakfast...
Left for customs at abt 6:45am....we went in by 2nd link as there was heavy traffic at Wdl custom....
Journey was smooth till we arrived at Malaysia Custom bridge....there was oso heavy traffic....but lucky we decided to do some trick, tts to go by the rd shoulder and cut into the lane...hahaha....
After the waiting and all we touch Malaysia soil at 8:05am....
BB drove and accelerate all the way for abt 2hrs bef we stop for toilet break, and we continued our journey up to Malacca...
We arrived at 11am in Malacca state, drove straight toour hotel (Golden Bay Hotel) to see if check-in was possible....
To bad, the rooms are not ready...so we decided to go for lunch first...
Kurt brought us to Jonker street area for Bak Kut Teh...different style and taste...
There after we headed to the Pourteguese Ship Museme....we walked around and played planks...so funny tat we kept laughing....
At abt 1pm, we moved to Phlawan SC to buy movies tix for the nite....Clash of the Titans....
We also tot of booking the KTV room for the nite after our movie, but decided not...
Bought some clothes and tibits, and it was already 3pm plus.....we headed back to hotel to check-in and have a quick shower and rest....
Left at abt 5pm for dinner, Satay Celup ~ something new for mi & BB....
Its like Lok Lok, jux tt we dip into the hot boiling stay sauce to cook our food....
Yummy! We wack 165 sticks at the end of abt 1 hr !
After dinner, we decided to head down to Jonker Weekend Nite Market to walk walk....its started to rain...
Arrived at the carpark at abt 7pm....bef we could get down the car, BB HP started to ring...
Something not good...after a few tele conversations, BB decided to go bk to SG...
Poor Kurt & GF was left with not much choice....but to follow us back as we oni went in by 1 car....
We returned back to hotel, packed our stuffs and check-out immediately....
We hit the road for 3 hrs till we touch SG, during the journey, FIL kept calling till it made us so worried.....
Upon arrival in SG, we send K & L back home bef we rush to TTSH....
It was already past midnite whn we got there....
Granny was panting breathlessly wif the mask....she was already in coma....
We were there for almost an hour bef we headed bk home to rest for the nite....
Its been almost 3 months since I updated....
LOL....
Been busy FB~ing and job hunting....and oso working p/time....
Feb was jux a simple month wif CNY, Valentine and my ROM anniversary celebration...
This yr visiting is simple cos BB dun haf much mood....
Went to our relatives side, Ah Pang's , Ah Lian's , Des's & Mdm Wong's house.....
March was jux a plain month, while BB served his reservist....
A mmt for him to relac...LOL...
Today is already the begining of April....
Went wif BB to do car servicing at Leng Kee....as we are going up Malacca tml, so must mk sure car is in gd condition....
We headed to take Bus 145 to TPY to meet up wif P & J, as Hub ask J to drive us back to collect car in the evening....but end up we stop half way at Clark Quay, The Central to grab a bite as we were too famished...
Continued our journey in cab after our meal....
Meet them and headed to Leng Kee after the game....
Collected the car at abt 7pm, headed back to TPY for dinner wif the usual gang...
Had a very sinful dinner with lotsa Cholestrol....
Headed back home to pack our luggage and rest for the nite....
Tml is a long day....Looking forward....
